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Latest on the blog - Recovering from Burnout - Caring Without Carrying

Burnout often happens when caring quietly turns into carrying things that are beyond your control, or that you don't have the resources to manage.

Carrying can look like:
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Latest on the blog - Recovering from Burnout - Caring without carrying

Breaking the Burnout Cycle

Clients often tell me, when they shift to caring without carrying:
✅ Their outcomes didn’t change.
✅ Their performance stayed strong.
✅ Their cl
Latest on the blog - Recovering from Burnout - How do I care and not carry?

Caring without Carrying - a Burnout Self-Check

1️⃣ Pause; and breathe
2️⃣ Ask: 'Is this mine to carry?'
3️⃣ Reframe: 'I can care deeply without carrying the responsibility
Blog excerpt: Language Matters - 3 ways

#1. From Pressure to Possibility

Words like ’should, must, need to, have to’ carry weight. They foster feelings of obligation and guilt.

Alternative language that promotes choice includes:
could.
Blog excerpt - Language Matters - 3 ways:

#2. From Fixed to Flexible

When you say ’This is just how I am,’ another common self-talk phrase, it can feel like a fixed identity, with no room, or interest, to move.

To foster flexibility of
Blog excertp: Language Matters - 3 ways this shows up:

#3. From Self-Criticism to Self-Compassion

The Self-Critic can emerge when things don’t go as you had planned or hoped, of you have made a mistake.

Self-criticism often sounds like:
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