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The Choice Point Worksheet - NEW June 2025

Getting my Brain back online when I ‘flip my lid’ - The Hand Model of the Brain - NEW June 2025

My Self Care Reminders

My Gratitude Guide

Grief Workbook

5 Strategies for High Achievers - to manage stress & find work-life balance

Boundaries for Energy

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'Including yourself in the circle of care sustains your love for the long haul.'

If you grew up believing family always comes first, the idea of putting yourself on the list can feel selfish. It’s not. It’s sustainable love. 🌿 When you
Your needs matter - Read more in my latest blogs 'A permission Slip to Honour Your Needs' and 'You're allowed to have needs'.

💡 A quick decision tool:
'If I say yes to their request, am I saying no to a need of mine?'
Either choice is okay -  just
Why it can feel so hard to put your needs first (and why it’s normal):
•	Culture & duty: family care is sacred
•	Fear of shame or loss: “Will I be judged?”
•	Uncertainty: change feels scary
•	Old habits: over
'Caring for me supports everyone I care for'
Latest blog is all about giving yourself permission to tend to your needs. There's even a 'Needs Menu' with a how-to guide on identifying and honouring your needs ✅

Read that again
💛 Meeting your own nee
Do you take care of your needs, not just everyone else's?

Here's your reminder to look after you too.

Daily 3 Check (takes 60 seconds):
1.	Body → What would help my body in the next hour?
2.	Mind → What would help my focus?
3.	Heart &rarr
Your Mini 'Needs Menu'
For a full Needs Menu and how-to guide see my latest blogs 'You're Allowed to have Needs' and 'A Permission Slip to Honour Your Needs'

Sometimes when you’re running on empty, it’s hard to even know what you need. T

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